i kinda disagree with that. I dont use pars really at all, so it dosent effect me. In a tournament, or anytime your playing with people, your score is all relative to the people your playing with. if you scored +5, and still got second place in a tourny then thats all that matters.
i do think par helps when playing a new course though. I hate going to a course that has no signs to say what par is because you just dont know what to expect. like someone said before, you would drive a par 4 different than if it was labled a par 3.
i think that every hole should have a birdie possibility. To me that means one drive, and one reasonable approach. if it will take 2 300'+ drives, than that should not be a par 3. a pro might be able to get a 500' drive, but then that still leaves a 100' putt. sure people may average around 3 shots, but every hole should have a birdie attempt if played well.
and again, i dont even play the course par, i just judge myselfe on my own average, but i do think that if pars were taken seriously every hole should have a birdie possibility for anyone who can drive an average of around 350'.

