I thought this would be an interesting topic since most of us here are married or in a serious relationship.
And how many out of those were you truly in love?
For me I have had 4 serious, live-in relationships. I have only truly been in love twice. How do I know? Because of my dreams...I know I love my wife (obviously), but out of my 3 ex's, I only ever dream of my first one. It was some hardcore Romeo/Juliet type love and I truly believed she was going to be the one forever. We went to college together and took different paths, but it was still an emotional life-fucking event for me. I was trying my hardest not to change, 18 and had it all figured out, and her parents were recently divorced and she wanted to forget her past and throw herself into something new. It took me almost 10 years and 2 girls (who were definitely not good enough for me, probably a self esteem thing) to heal to the point where I could find an equal and truly trust enough to fall in real love again. My first girlfriend is still single and I don't think she's had a serious relationship since. Very strange indeed, and sometimes in my dreams my wife morphs into her and vice versa. That's how I know I've only loved 2 women, and I was probably meant to only love one (hence the weird dreams).
How about you guys?